Unsung Heroines…..
21 Jul 2010 8 Comments
I am a girl. I am not going to paint the usual horrifying picture of the condition of females in India.. i want to talk about girls all over the world and the ones living galaxies away in a parallel world..human beings are basically of two types- male and female. They are not only different in physical characteristics but also at every other level be it emotional or the entire process of thinking, deciding and reacting to any situation in life..
- Physical strength: well men play five sets in lawn tennis where as women play three..yes, that is the way we are built. But do men really justify their physical strength while merrily watching a girl being molested in front of hundreds or in a casual case of teasing which happens every day in trains, buses, shops and even homes?? Its better we don’t possess such dysfunctional quality.
- Endurance index: when it comes to endurance, none can beat a woman. After all, she bears it all- be it menstrual pain or pain during childbirth. She quietly bears it all; never expecting acknowledgment or assistance of any form.
- Emotional quotient: this is also a domain of dominance by women. Life is not a mere display of vitality of muscles or aggression of testosterone. It takes a lot more to carve a niche of your own. And by the way, if you are getting carried away by tears then let me clarify- tears are an expression and show the degree of sensitivity of a person but does not quantify ones inner strength to face facts in life.
- Creation of life: this one seems impossible for a man [barring a few weird cases of sex change!]. Nature has bestowed upon us this unique power to provide shelter to God’s creation of new abode for a wandering soul. It seems even God feels that we are more responsible beings than the other half!
But a life is formed by the union of a male and a female and therefore it becomes an EQUAL responsibility of both to look after their child. If mom is busy at work, dad cannot shrug off his duties. If women demand equal rights, they also demand equal duties [ not a biased share!] Mother is an embodiment of love, care and sacrifice.
5. Intelligence: the number of women working in professional may not be equal to number of men; but the number is rising rapidly. Conclusion- given a chance, we can do it as well.
6.Confidence: perhaps a majority of us try to underplay our own respect in society. Take pride in being a woman so that men can take pride in being in company of such powerful women!
Women are a beautiful, artistic and beloved creation of God. Then what’s your problem man??? Keep your ego a wee bit behind and enjoy the grace of a woman.
[ An appeal to stop female infanticide and atrocities over women]

Jul 21, 2010 @ 01:08:17
You have raised an excellent point out here…but the thing is not all men have problems with the fairer sex…its mostly those who either feel jealous of all the capabilities of women or those who have a blind notion of superiority of males over females who are so…
Jul 21, 2010 @ 09:09:12
yeah i know am very lucky!!
Jul 21, 2010 @ 06:35:58
meeeeeeeee…..I am d one who feels men are wayyyyyyyy more superior…cmon everyone knows it…hadd hi karte hain log…
Jul 21, 2010 @ 11:41:13
Yeah..xactly I was talking about all the filthy people like you!
Jul 21, 2010 @ 13:47:48
now cmon kushal u knw it in ur heart that we are wayyyyyy tooo superior to them…thik hai u dnt hav to accept it publicly par all m sayin is u r nt at al wrong to think that we are superior to the other sex
Jul 21, 2010 @ 15:54:27
On a serious note…do u really think appeals and requests like these are ever gonna work as in everrr…dekh d point I am tryin to make here is its very natural (I should rather put it as THE “nature’s law”) to oppress the weaklings in the society (I am nt at al referrin to women here…its a general statement that I am tryin to make)…thats the way its always been cuz thats precisely the way nature works (be it the wild or the history of the human race)…I can sooo go on pointing you out the endless examples in this regard…so wen everyone in this world thinks that women are being looked down upon or being tortured or not being given a fair chance then please take a moment and give it a thought why…why at al did it turn this way…please try and think on this n trst me if at al u come up with the right reason u’ll surely see the apt solution as well…M nt postin my ‘Reason’ now cuz I jus am curious to know wat do ppl really think about this (dnt wanna get them biased
)…please post ur ‘reasons’ fr this
Aug 08, 2010 @ 15:15:33
hey a nice blog…i somehow landed this link , read those powerful points and believe me, it took me no time to feel that this must be “A”‘s blog!!!….:P
beautiful and powerful points with no counters available…..
1.Physical strength- awesome point!
2.Endurance index. yet another “ten on ten” point.
3.Emotional quotient, 4. Creation of life 5. Intelligence 6.Confidence ..too good…
one thing for sure…..girls need to be understood very closely before reaching out to any conclusion…..after all kissi bade shayar ne kaha hai” jarur koi wajah rahi hogi, jarur koi wajah rahi hogi….koi yun hi aisa nahin hota”…
Aug 13, 2010 @ 20:55:28
thank u!!! amar and you are the inspiration to this post ( i mean the lab wala discussions that we had..) !! am really happy that u liked it..